What should I do with my hair? For sure it won’t be a butch or an Afro

www.mantecabulletin.com— Over the years I’ve had more than a few people provide me with unsolicited critiques about my hair.

The Guardian—We all want to cut out the bad parts of ourselves. It won’t work, and it won’t make us happier. Trauma, vulnerability, dependency like it or not, we can’t just wish them awayWhen I was a little girl, I cried a lot. I used to wish ferociously that I was not such a crybaby. I remember the shame so well. Sitting on my bed on a Sunday evening, hot-cheeked and furious with my tears, holding on to the thought that when I was a grownup, I would never cry. I would be a strong, confident and capable woman, and I would never again feel like a sobbing little girl who doesn’t want to go to school...

Highsnobiety—Don’t Worry, Gustaf Westman’s Spiky Cups Won’t Hurt You. Out of descriptors that fit Gustaf Westman’s designs — colorful, bubbly, soft, squiggly, curly — one word that doesn’t come to mind is spiky.Ignoring the custo

We Ain't Got No History—Chelsea fans’ choice lineup against West Ham: Can’t change, won’t change. We could barely name a first-team eleven for our last game, filling the bench with kids from the Academy, and that situation hasn’t really changed in the three days since. And so, unsurprisingly, the starting lineup as voted on by the WAGNH Community is the exact same lineup as we had fielded against Spurs on Thursday. Ten of the eleven starters got at least 89 per cent, while the eleventh, Mykhailo Mudryk, wasn’t too far behind with 72. Carney Chukwuemeka (20%) and Cesare Casadei (17%) were the...